For attention to the aspirations, hopes, willings


Published on 1 November 2016

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I’m dedicating these rows in the memory of the people I’ve known and those whom I have not known, that, with  the behavior, attitude, attention for those around them, through determination, have been followed, with as much as wisdom they could, what they have understood from the designation they have in this life.

Among these people are a few friends, my grandparents, my father…

I think for all the changes we would like to happen in these times, need to change indifference, the lack of respect, lack of approaching, with attention, on the desires, aspirations, on the tries to make good things to happen. Starting with small achievements that may have a special importance, if we understand it, and till achievements that can make a difference, for a better world….

nature pinterest2Then, when these people leave this life, we remember them some time, then we arrive to forget. And with such an attitude, it’s hard to find your purpose in life and to follow it; even arrive to cannot find time to look for it; arriving with frustrations and envies, that load and that not let constructive relationships to be built.

henryford-google-5 In the past, with all the difficulties, the world was more attentive and appreciative; people were trying to “leave something behind”, an attitude that, the next generation, more educated in this way, has been respected. At that times, it has been building on valuable aspirations, innovative ideas, inventions.


I think now, more than ever, it needs attention, consideration, open for creating chances, because,

~ To act for a better world ~ even ~ ~ save the world~ have never been more real, closer to the need for action and further to be utopian

img_9462 I dedicate these rows and to #Colectiv,  for those who left and those who stayed and those who understood something of this tragic event.

For me, there were moments of suffering for everything that happens in those days. But just suffering, does not help, just words, just to feel what was wrong and what need to happen to save them, not helped. It may have helped if there could existed listening, the empathy; and these have been increasing my suffering.

This summer, after many years, I was for three days in Vama Veche. Maybe because for many from #Colectiv,  I was like at their home there, were a few moments that were like important things have been written for the future, together with those written today …




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Pentru atentie acordata nazuintelor


Publicat 1 November 2016

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lights-googleDedic aceste randuri in memoria oamenilor pe care i-am cunoscut si a celor pe care nu i-am cunoscut, care prin comportament, atitudine, atentie oferita celor din jurul lor, prin determinare, au urmat, cu cata intelepciune au putut, ceea ce au inteles din menirea pe care o au in aceasta viata.

Printre acesti oameni se afla cativa prieteni, bunicii, tata…

Cred ca pentru toate schimbarile pe care ni le dorim de la aceste vremuri, in aceste timpuri, este nevoie de schimbarea nepasarii, a lipsei de respect, a lipsei aplecarii cu atentie asupra dorintelor, nazuintelor, incercarilor de a face sa se intample lucruri bune. Incepand cu realizari marunte dar care pot sa aiba o insemnatate deosebita daca o intelegem, si pana la realizari care ajung sa faca diferente, pentru o lume mai buna.

nature pinterest2Apoi, dupa ce acesti oameni pleaca din aceasta viata, ne amintim catva timp de ei, apoi uitam. Iar cu o astfel de atitudine, e greu sa iti gasesti rostul in viata si sa il urmezi; chiar nu ai timp sa il cauti; ajungi sa ai frustrari, invidii, care incarca si care nu lasa sa se construiasca relatii, la randul lor constructive.

henryford-google-5In trecut, cu toate greutatile, lumea era mai atenta si mai apreciativa; oamenii se straduiau „sa lase ceva in urma lor” si acest lucru ajungea sa fie respectat macar de generatiile urmatoare, care erau educate si in acest sens. Atunci, se construia pe nazuinte valoroase, idei inovative, inventii.

paris-concert-david-guetta-euro-2016Cred ca acum, mai mult ca oricand, este nevoie de atentie, luare in considerare, creare de sanse, pentru ca,

~a actiona pentru o lume mai buna~, chiar ~ salvarea lumii~ nu au fost nicicand mai reale, mai aproape de nevoia de actiune si mai departe de a fi utopice

img_9462Dedic aceste randuri si pentru #Colectiv, pentru cei care au plecat si pentru cei care au ramas, si celor care au inteles ceva din acest tragic eveniment.

Pentru mine au fost momente de suferinta pentru tot ce se intampla in acele zile. Dar, doar suferinta nu ajuta, doar cuvintele, doar  sa simti de ce nu era bine si  cum ar fi trebuit sa se intample salvarea lor, nu ajuta. Ar fi ajutat poate, daca ar fi existat ascultare, empatie si acest lucru imi accentua suferinta.

In aceasta vara, dupa multi ani, am ajuns trei zile in Vama VechePoate pentru ca pentru multi din #Colectiv eram la ei acasa, au fost cateva momente in care parca se scriau randuri pentru viitor impreuna cu cele de astazi…


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